updated: 21 April 2013/6pm
19 April 2013/11pm
**before I begin my 'normal gibberish' tonite;
I would like to take a moment and acknowledge the
horrific events that took place on monday past in
the great city of boston, ma.
my heart/prayers go out to all the victims and their
families affected by this senseless tragedy.
thank goodness that those responsible
(pending the legal system outcome)
have been dealt with accordingly...
so without further ado;
good evening everyone.
I hope the past week has been enjoyable for you all.
as for myself,
it's been rather boring and uneventful.
minus the fact I've had to deal w/someone who has
major issues with lies and deceit.
(I'll explain later)
it's just past 10pm here right now,
and we all just got home from going to dinner/movie.
dinner was the theatre snack bar and the movie 'oblivion'.
dinner was good; popcorn, nachos, hot dogs, hot tamales.
and the movie w/tom cruise, morgan freeman,
and a bunch of newish actors was exactly as I expected.
an above average 'story plot' with a huge amount
of computer spfx graphics.
I'd rate it a 8/10stars.
Ash & Elli were more interested in the boys sitting in the
rear of the theatre than the movie itself,
but grandpa Jack loved it.
Jessica stayed home babysitting a sick dog,
and l.g. and her kids aren't coming over til tomorrow.
our plans for the weekend are currently moot.
most of my week was spent penning my
the humorous part of doing two stories at the same time is when both start to 'bleed-over' into each other.
thats all my 'marine basketball love story' dialog needs
is a female vampire bitch from las vegas.
in other news;
I did get totally 'blown-off' again by l.g. on
wednesday for lunch.
I was so distraught having to eat lunch alone
for the 1000th time,
that I decided to go window shopping by-myself.
and then decided to buy a pair of 'over-priced'
I seriously had no fukin idea what-so-ever that a pair of boots could cost so much.
believe you me,
I will never EVER wear these damn things.
*plus they are totally uncomfortable, so damn tight.
l.g. did try to 'make-it-up-to-me later that day,
but I told her 'my dinner plans' had already
*I had dinner/movie w/the girls;
pizza hut pizza and the dvd 'heathers/1989'.
that was about the highlight of my week.
now I'll share something with you guys.
so let me tell you about this (recently former) friend of mine who totally 'dicked-me' earlier this week.
I actually had not talked with her for almost 6mo because of her 'unstable emotional personality'.
but when she contacted me a few days before
going on vacation,
I was both surprised and suspicious of her intentions.
but being the person I am,
I decided to give her another chance to redeem herself
for her past actions.
(which I'd rather not explain right now).
even though l.g. warned me to not 'trust her' again;
I ignored the advice from a rational woman,
and was exploited (again) by an irrational one.
yes. she did the same thing to me as before,
but on a grander scale.
she apparently has been keeping-up with my life
thru this website.
*"Hello you psychotic crazy fukin bitch"!!!
after talking with her once I returned home from vacation, she told me she had come into a little extra money and wanted to 'possibly' invest in my 'cat dog spa' business.
so with that being said,
I contacted 'my partner' and we had convo's for
2 days concerning this.
at which point we both agreed to bring her in for 5%.
so after I spent the monies to have the proper paperwork drawn-up and sent to her,
I thought the 'deal was basically done'
(except for the legality of it all).
I then began to have 'regular contact' with this woman daily because of her insistance to do so,
which had begun to wear on my relationship w/l.g.
so after nearly a week of her giving 'excuse after excuse' for not returning the documents she had been sent,
(along with a cashiers check to seal the deal)
she again flaked on me BIG TIME.
this time blaming me for her desire to withdrawl from our business transaction.
blah-blah-blah-blah-blah. nothing but bullshit!
so considering I had some phone numbers to a few of
her family members,
(don't ask, and I won't lie)
I decided to give them a call to see what this
woman's problem was.
and what interesting chats we all had.
hearing stories of her past relationships,
and even finding out her parents have a restraining order
on her from contacting her eldest son.
and btw, she never had any money to begin with.
her only intention was to try to break-up me and l.g.
(which she almost did)
and either wanted to have a relationship with me,
or get even w/me for 'dumping her crazy ass'
a few years back.
why she led-me-on for so long is a mystery.
(beginning before my trip back east)
I told her from the start I was in love w/l.g. and wouldn't ever entertain the thought of leaving her for anyone.
but to 'string'me-along' until the final second she could no longer 'cover her ass' was beyond me.
I think she has some serious issues to deal with.
why misrepresent yourself knowing you could never proceed to the extent of all the promises you made. especially when your actions (or lack of) have an effect on other peoples lives and livelihood.
trusting people is hard enough for me,
especially these days when 'almost everyone' is looking to say or do anything to make themselves appear
better than others.
and yes, I admit I have done some things that
can be labeled as such.
sometimes you've lived a lie for so long,
you just start to believe it yourself.
forgetting for a moment that what you tell people
at 'face value' they normally believe without
a hesitation of doubt.
and then if 'it' ever comes back and bites you in the ass,
you just admit your mistakes,
learn from them,
and move on.
so with that being said,
I'd like to come clean with all of you about something that I've been keeping a secret for a long time;
I never graduated from UCLA.
in fact I've only been on campus to either attend
a basketball game,
or to purchase items from the various stores.
I have been living that lie for nealry 20yrs now,
and I can't any longer.
it started out as an innocent joke years ago during a heated argument with a resident of the gated community
I worked security for,
who was a die hard usc fan.
well shit... one thing led to another,
and it just totally took-on-a-life-of-its-own.
the status quo of the country club property I worked at was as transparent as a jellyfish.
and I fell into the 'mindless motions' of my new found fame,
as other residents were impressed by the knowledge of my 'fake' college degree.
and I reluctantly admit,
I did enjoy the attention it brought me.
*especially with the married (unhappy) women.
so I appologize for misrepresenting myself,
I have no excuse for continuing this falsehood for this long. and I do know there are a few of you who have known me for many years who may be disappointed in my actions,
and to you I am extremely sorry.
maybe I deserved the 'actions' of this woman lying to me for payback for my untruth. who knows.
if you no longer wish to remain my friend because of my deceit, I would understand.
but please, could you not clutter my inbox w/hate-mail,
I get enough of that shit already.
*telling your daughter you lied about something like this was extremely humbling and hurtful for me.
all she did after I explained my actions was give me a hug, smile and say; 'she was going to be smarter than me after she graduated from university'.
I did 'come clean' w/l.g. before valentines day,
and Jessica has known for years.
just one more thing though before I drop this subject;
I 'did' while I was stationed at mcas el toro, ca complete quite a few military correspondence courses that originated from the ucla campus.
*not saying that makes a real difference,
just wanted to bring that to light.
I really am truly sorry.
*you have absolutely no idea how good it feels to get that 'monkey off my back'.
and yes I do have 'other' secrets in my 'graveyard'.
nothing as dramatic as I've just shared;
mostly my sexual escapades as a young-sperm-bank,
and my actions with promiscuous females.
yes. I was an extreme man-whore,
and my actions w/adulterous women was taboo.
*I'm seriously not boasting what-so-ever.
in-fact, I am having a hard time knowing what I did to a few young women and how I treated them,
especially now that I have Ash and Elli in my life.
**too bad I couldn't have 'ms east coast' do a 'guest entry', she would be brutally honest with her opinions of me.
omg. fuck me. the stories she could tell you guys. ugh.
***my past relationships w/women have alot to do w/me going to my therapist semi-monthly.
that, and my fear of being a terrible father, husband,
and friend... but besides all that shit, I'm perfect!!!
21 April 2013/6pm
just returned from west covina a little while ago,
and I thought I would give 'a few of you' some recognition.
below are a few comments/replies from my readers,
*the following texts/emails have been copied/pasted as received.
positive or negative, I appreciate your feedback.
ms east coast:
Read your entry: I would never tell your tales of exploits past ;-)
April 20, 2013 8:51 AM
I just read your blog and I want you to know I Love you no matter what. God connected us for a reason. L. G. is your Lady. We have been friends if only texting and phone.. I want the best for you.
Our friendship I hope to keep forever. No other agenda.
April 20, 2013 2:04 PM
I can't believe that she would dupe you like that?
Did you treat her badly beforehand Gregory?
Maybe she felt you betrayed her somehow.
Remember Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
No matter your faults, we all have them.
I'll always love you.
April 21, 2013 10:12am
1. I have enjoyed reading your web and catching up.
2. I always wondered where you ended up.
3. Was sorry about Gram passing May '04,
not sure if you knew we had stayed in touch.
4. A Man Whore? Really?
5. I loved making love to you!
6. Call me please (XXX) XXX-XXXX
April 21, 2013 3:56pm
I knew you were full of shit most of the time, and now you just proved my suspicions were correct. I think your just an old man looking for attention.
April 20, 2013 5:29am
psychotic crazy fukin bitch:
I can't believe your making me out to be a complete asshole.
You are such a mother fucking liar. I told you why I couldnt follow through with my promises of investing with you.
And you refused to listen to my reasons of why I think your idea of a indoor pet park is stupid and that it will never be profitable. Especially with your worthless ass in charge. I fucking hate you so much.
And another thing you little dick:
I would never want to go out with you again, you weren't that great the first time around.
As far as your skank-ass girlfriend is concerned, I understand the only reason she is even remotely successful is because she rode on the coat tales of her soon to be ex husband.
Also, you didn't break up with me, I BROKE IT OFF WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe before you write something on your loser blog for all the losers to read about your pathetic life (you really think anybody gives a fuck about what your dumbass has for dinner every night? They don't!!!!!!!!!) you should make sure you get your facts straight.
And if you don't delete that entry about me,
I will see you in court for slander.
I don't care about you at all, don't flatter yourself.
You were a piece of shit boyfriend, a lousy fuck and I have been told your a terrible father. Go fuck yourself.
April 21, 2013 7:41am
I think you are a ego maniac assbleeder!
Why don't you fuck your horses in their asses!
If you even really have them. LIAR!
April 21, 2013 1:01pm
*gotta take 'the good' with 'the bad'... g.a.kiss